{"id":3411,"date":"2014-09-14T16:03:57","date_gmt":"2014-09-14T23:03:57","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/saobiennhatrang.net\/?p=3411"},"modified":"2014-09-14T16:03:57","modified_gmt":"2014-09-14T23:03:57","slug":"giong-nhau-va-khac-nhau-hoang-chau-sb60","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/saobiennhatrang.net\/?p=3411","title":{"rendered":"Gi\u1ed1ng nhau v\u00e0 kh\u00e1c nhau (Ho\u00e0ng Ch\u00e2u sb60)"},"content":{"rendered":"
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GI\u1ed0NG NHAU & KH\u00c1C NHAU<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n

\u1ede\u00a0 tr\u00ean \u0111\u1eddi c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng c\u00e1i gi\u1ed1ng nhau \u0111\u1ebfn n\u1ed7i ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t \u0111\u00e2u l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e2u l\u00e0 hai \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. T\u00f4i c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a ch\u00e1u ru\u1ed9t, ch\u00e1u h\u1ecd sinh \u0111\u00f4i gi\u1ed1ng nhau v\u00e0 cho m\u00e3i \u0111\u1ebfn b\u00e2y gi\u1edd, t\u00f4i c\u0169ng v\u1eabn ch\u1eb3ng bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ai l\u00e0 anh, ai l\u00e0 em v\u00e0 ai l\u00e0 ch\u1ecb, ai l\u00e0 em. V\u00e0 c\u00e1i \u0111\u1ecbnh lu\u1eadt \u201c LE SEMBLABLE\u00a0 ATTIRE\u00a0 LE SEMBLABLE\u201d\u00a0 (C\u00e1i gi\u1ed1ng nhau l\u00f4i h\u00fat c\u00e1i gi\u1ed1ng nhau) xem ra l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng \u2018b\u1ea5t di b\u1ea5t d\u1ecbch\u2019, kh\u00f4ng thay \u0111\u1ed5i. Nh\u01b0ng trong c\u00e1i gi\u1ed1ng nhau li\u1ec7u c\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec kh\u00e1c nhau hay kh\u00f4ng ? Xin m\u1ea1n ph\u00e9p \u0111\u01b0a ra m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i \u00fd ki\u1ebfn.<\/p>\n

I\/ C\u00c1I\u00a0 GI\u1ed0NG\u00a0 NHAU<\/span><\/b>\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n

\u00a0 <\/b>Nh\u01b0 tr\u00ean \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i, \u0111i\u1ec1u gi\u1ed1ng nhau trong cu\u00f4c s\u1ed1ng, ch\u00fang ta nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5y c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u: gi\u1ed1ng nhau nh\u01b0 \u2018hai gi\u1ecdt n\u01b0\u1edbc l\u00e3\u2019, gi\u1ed1ng nhau nh\u01b0 \u0111\u00fac. X\u00e9t v\u1ec1 ngo\u1ea1i di\u1ec7n th\u00ec nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf v\u00e0 x\u00e9t v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t tinh th\u1ea7n th\u00ec c\u0169ng v\u1eady . Trong nh\u00f3m anh em, ai c\u00f3 c\u00f9ng s\u1edf th\u00edch, ai c\u00f3 c\u00f9ng ch\u00ed h\u01b0\u1edbng th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111i v\u1edbi nhau; ai th\u00edch nh\u1eadu th\u01b0\u1eddng h\u00fa nhau \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eadu, ai th\u00edch u\u1ed1ng c\u00e0 ph\u00ea bu\u1ed5i s\u00e1ng, h\u1eb9n nhau ra qu\u00e1n nh\u00e2m nhi gi\u1ecdt c\u00e0 ph\u00ea t\u00e1n g\u1eabu. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 chuy\u1ec7n b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng. Ai th\u00edch l\u00e0m m\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, c\u00f9ng nhau d\u1ea5n th\u00e2n gi\u00fap \u00edch cho tha nh\u00e2n, gi\u00fap \u00edch cho x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, c\u0169ng l\u00e0 chuy\u1ec7n b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng; v\u00e0 khi h\u1ecd ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c, h\u1ecd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac, vui v\u1ebb v\u00ec m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m m\u1ed9t vi\u1ec7c m\u00e0 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00ean l\u00e0m. Hai k\u1ebb sinh \u0111\u00f4i, kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eefng gi\u1ed1ng nhau v\u1ec1 h\u00ecnh th\u1ec3, khu\u00f4n m\u1eb7t m\u00e0 c\u00f2n khi \u0111au \u1ed1m c\u0169ng k\u00e9o ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia \u1ed1m theo. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y bu\u1ed3n, k\u1ebb kia c\u0169ng ch\u1eb3ng m\u1ea5y vui. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng k\u1ebb sinh \u0111\u00f4i, c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t d\u00f2ng m\u00e1u,c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t cha, m\u1ed9t m\u1eb9. Trong x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, c\u0169ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng khu\u00f4n m\u1eb7t g\u1ea7n gi\u1ed1ng nhau, ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 anh ch\u00e0ng gi\u1ed1ng H\u1ed3 Ch\u00ed Minh v\u00e0 lu\u00f4n \u0111\u00f3ng vai c\u1ee5 H\u1ed3 \u0111\u1ebfn th\u0103m c\u00e1c tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ecdc ho\u1eb7c \u0111\u00f3ng trong c\u00e1c phim t\u00e0i li\u1ec7u. R\u1ed3i nh\u1eefng k\u1ebb h\u1ecdc chung c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t tr\u01b0\u1eddng, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c trong m\u1ed9t m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng n\u00e0o d\u00f3, c\u0169ng ch\u1ecbu \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng ph\u1ea7n n\u00e0o v\u1ec1 c\u00e1ch gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n

Anh em La Salle Taberd c\u00f3 trang Web ri\u00eang, anh em L\u00e0ng S\u00f4ng c\u0169ng v\u1eady. Ri\u00eang anh em CSB ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng c\u00f3 cuusaobiengroup quy t\u1ee5 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 anh em r\u1ea3i r\u00e1c kh\u1eafp n\u0103m ch\u00e2u b\u1ed1n b\u1ec3. H\u1ecd gi\u1ed1ng nhau v\u00ec c\u00f3 c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t m\u00e1i tr\u01b0\u1eddng chung khi c\u00f2n thi\u1ebfu th\u1eddi. H\u1ecd l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed3ng m\u00f4n, h\u1ecd l\u00e0 schoolmates, l\u00e0 classmates v\u1edbi nhau v\u00e0 t\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean h\u1ecd lu\u00f4n \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m v\u1edbi nhau. \u2018Le semblable attire le semblable\u2019 l\u00e0 \u1edf ch\u1ed7 \u0111\u00f3. T\u00ecnh c\u1edd g\u1eb7p m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi xa l\u1ea1, v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bi\u1ebft h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ecdc t\u1ea1i TCV Sao Bi\u1ec3n NhaTrang ho\u1eb7c t\u1ea1i Providence Hu\u1ebf, ho\u1eb7c Adran \u0110\u00e0 L\u1ea1t hay m\u1ed9t ng\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3; t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean h\u1ecd s\u1ebd h\u1ecfi th\u0103m nhau v\u1ec1 ng\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ecdc, v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng gi\u00e1o s\u01b0 m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng t\u00f2ng h\u1ecdc\u2026R\u1ed3i h\u1ecd c\u0169ng t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean li\u00ean l\u1ea1c, \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1edbi nhau v\u00e0 gi\u1edbi thi\u1ec7u nh\u1eefng anh em kh\u00e1c\u2026<\/p>\n

Xin \u0111an c\u1eed m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u truy\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh c\u1edd t\u00ecm g\u1eb7p \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u01b0\u1eddi anh em SB 73 t\u1ea1i \u0110\u1ea5t \u0110\u1ecf BRVT : S\u1ed1 l\u00e0 t\u00f4i c\u00f3 quen m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n Ho\u00e0ng Ng\u1ecdc Anh ng\u00e0y x\u01b0a h\u1ecdc TCV Hoan Thi\u1ec7n Hu\u1ebf r\u1ed3i l\u00ean \u0110CV Xu\u00e2n B\u00edch Hu\u1ebf h\u1ecdc Tri\u1ebft v\u00e0 Th\u1ea7n. Anh ta l\u00e0 gi\u00e1o vi\u00ean c\u1ea5p 1 t\u1ea1i Ph\u01b0\u1edbc T\u1ec9nh. Trong nh\u1eefng l\u1ea7n sinh ho\u1ea1t, c\u00e1c gi\u00e1o vi\u00ean trong huy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi nhau, c\u00e1c gi\u00e1o vi\u00ean kh\u00e1c c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1eadp \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t gi\u00e1o vi\u00ean d\u1ea1y Anh V\u0103n c\u1ea5p 2 v\u00e0 n\u00f3i v\u1edbi anh ta l\u00e0 gi\u00e1o vi\u00ean n\u00e0y c\u00f3 c\u00e1ch h\u00e0nh x\u1eed gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t k\u1ebb \u2018Ta ru\u2019 nh\u01b0 anh ta. Th\u1ebf l\u00e0 anh ta m\u1edbi t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bi\u1ebft ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00e1o vi\u00ean \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 h\u1ecdc \u1edf TCV Sao Bi\u1ec3n NhaTrang. Ho\u00e0ng Ng\u1ecdc Anh \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i v\u1edbi t\u00f4i v\u00e0 ch\u00ednh t\u00f4i c\u00f9ng Ho\u00e0ng Thanh 61 \u0111\u00e3 t\u00ecm \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u00e0, \u0111\u00e3 g\u1eb7p v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3\u2019 th\u1ea5y\u2019. Ph\u1ea1m Nh\u01b0 V\u0103n v\u00e0o Sao Bi\u1ec3n n\u0103m 1973, n\u0103m t\u00f4i v\u00e0 Rev.Phan \u0110\u00ecnh T\u1ea1c ph\u1ee5 tr\u00e1ch tuy\u1ec3n Ch\u1ee7ng Sinh v\u00e0o\u2026C\u00e1i Style \u2018ta ru\u2019 d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t d\u1ea5u \u1ea5n n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0m cho ch\u00fang ta gi\u1ed1ng nhau m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch n\u00e0y hay c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c, kh\u00e1c v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c trong x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i. C\u0169ng nh\u01b0, n\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 ch\u00fang ta c\u1ee1i xe Honda tr\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng ph\u1ed1, g\u1eb7p m\u1ed9t hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1eef \u0103n m\u1eb7c \u0111\u1ed3 \u2018civil\u2019, qu\u1ea7n \u0111en d\u00e0i \u00e1o xanh l\u01a1, ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u1ecd thu\u1ed9c c\u1ed9ng \u0111o\u00e0n n\u1eef tu n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, kh\u00f3 m\u00e0 ch\u1ed1i c\u00e3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. \u0110\u00f3 m\u1edbi ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 t\u1eeb xa nh\u00ecn v\u00e0 nh\u1eadn ch\u1eafc nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf ch\u1ee9 ch\u01b0a n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ebfn khi tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n th\u00ec c\u00e1i \u0111u\u00f4i l\u1ea1i c\u00e0ng l\u1ed9 ra \u2018nh\u00e3n ti\u1ec1n\u2019\u2026<\/p>\n

II\/\u00a0 C\u00c1I\u00a0 KH\u00c1C NHAU<\/span><\/b><\/p>\n

Cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi c\u0169ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00e1c nhau. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng ai \u0111\u1eb7t nghi v\u1ea5n b\u1edfi v\u00ec nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec3u kh\u00e1c nhau c\u00f2n c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng c\u00e1i gi\u1ed1ng nhau. Trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh, anh em tuy c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t nh\u00e0, m\u1ed9t d\u00f2ng m\u00e1u, nh\u01b0ng m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1ed9t t\u00e1nh \u00fd kh\u00e1c nhau. \u2018Cha m\u1eb9 sinh con, Tr\u1eddi sinh t\u00ednh\u2019, m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1ed7i v\u1ebb. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 t\u00ednh n\u00e0y; ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 t\u00ednh kia; kh\u00f4ng ai ch\u1ed1i c\u00e3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Trong x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, anh l\u00e0 anh, t\u00f4i l\u00e0 t\u00f4i. Anh kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 t\u00f4i v\u00e0 t\u00f4i c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 anh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. \u0110\u00e0n \u00f4ng l\u00e0 \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng, ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef l\u00e0 ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef .\u0110\u00e0n \u00f4ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. T\u1ea1o H\u00f3a \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1eb7t ra nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf. Ng\u00e0y nay c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 ho\u00e1n chuy\u1ec3n gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh; nam \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u1ea3i ph\u1ea9u th\u00e0nh n\u1eef.Tuy nhi\u00ean t\u00f4i ngh\u0129 c\u00e1i g\u1ed1c \u2018con trai\u2019 v\u1eabn c\u00f2n n\u1eb1m trong c\u00e1 t\u00ednh c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3. C\u0169ng nh\u01b0 trong m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 gia \u0111\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng sinh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c con trai, cha m\u1eb9 cho con g\u00e1i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh c\u1eaft t\u00f3c cao, m\u1eb7c \u00e1o qu\u1ea7n con trai. M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 t\u00ednh t\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 c\u00f3 v\u1ebb nam t\u00ednh h\u01a1n m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat, nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 v\u1eabn l\u00e0 con g\u00e1i ; l\u1edbn l\u00ean c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 v\u1eabn ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u01b0\u00e1 g\u00e1i b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng. M\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u kh\u00e1c nhau \u0111\u1ebfn n\u1ed7i \u1edf c\u00e1c n\u01b0\u1edbc t\u00e2n ti\u1ebfn, ng\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng an c\u1ea3nh s\u00e1t d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng nh\u1eadn d\u1ea1ng m\u1ed9t k\u1ebb \u0111\u00e1ng nghi n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 n\u1ebfu h\u1ecd c\u00f3 \u0111\u0103ng k\u00fd nh\u00e2n danh v\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ebb c\u0103n c\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u00e0nh n\u00e0y c\u1ea5p. S\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t \u0111\u00f3 gi\u00fap cho con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1eb7c th\u00f9 ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Trong gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c, khi h\u1ecdc v\u1ec1 c\u00e2u \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n, ch\u00fang ta v\u1eabn c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n : c\u00f3 th\u1eadt, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 th\u1eadt trong hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i v\u00e0 qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9. Ng\u00e0y x\u01b0a khi h\u1ecdc ti\u1ebfng Ph\u00e1p v\u1edbi c\u1ed1 Hirigoyen, Ng\u00e0i \u0111\u00e3 gi\u1ea3ng d\u1ea1y r\u1ea5t r\u00f5 v\u1ec1 ba tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n n\u00e0y- (r\u00e9elles conditions v\u00e0 irr\u00e9elles conditions). Ng\u00e0y nay khi d\u1ea1y ti\u1ebfng Anh cho c\u00e1c em, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e3 gi\u1ea3ng d\u1ea1y r\u00f5 ba \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n n\u00e0y cho c\u00e1c em n\u1eafm v\u1eefng (real conditions v\u00e0 unreal conditions). Nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u \u2018N\u1ebfu t\u00f4i l\u00e0\u2026.\u2019 To\u00e0n l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u trong gi\u1ea3 thuy\u1ebft v\u00ec trong th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf \u2018t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e2u ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0\u2026\u2019.<\/p>\n

Trong th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi n\u00e0y, \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng kh\u00e1c v\u1edbi \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 v\u1ec1 ph\u00e1i t\u00ednh; ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u01b0\u1edbc n\u00e0y kh\u00e1c v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u01b0\u1edbc kia v\u1ec1 d\u00e2n t\u1ed9c; ng\u01b0\u1eddi da v\u00e0ng kh\u00e1c v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi da tr\u1eafng, da \u0111en, da \u0111\u1ecf v\u1ec1 ch\u1ee7ng t\u1ed9c. V\u1ec1 tr\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ed9, anh n\u00f4ng d\u00e2n kh\u00e1c v\u1edbi \u00f4ng b\u00e1c s\u0129 hay k\u1ef9 s\u01b0. V\u1ec1 tu\u1ed5i t\u00e1c, \u00f4ng gi\u00e0 kh\u00e1c v\u1edbi ch\u00e0ng thanh ni\u00ean. V\u1ec1 t\u1eadp t\u1ee5c v\u0103n h\u00f3a, ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u01b0\u1edbc n\u00e0y kh\u00e1c v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u01b0\u1edbc kia; ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u00e2n t\u1ed9c n\u00e0y kh\u00e1c v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u00e2n t\u1ed9c kia. V\u1ec1 ch\u00ednh ki\u1ebfn c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 v\u1ec1 s\u1edf th\u00edch, m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 ch\u00ednh ki\u1ebfn v\u00e0 s\u1edf th\u00edch ri\u00eang. Kh\u00f4ng ai gi\u1ed1ng\u00a0 ai. V\u00e0 c\u00f2n bi\u1ebft bao di\u1ec1u kh\u00e1c nhau n\u1eefa. V\u00e2n v\u00e2n v\u00e0 v\u00e2n v\u00e2n\u2026<\/p>\n

III\/\u00a0 KH\u00c1C NHAU TRONG C\u00c1I GI\u1ed0NG NHAU<\/span><\/b>\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n

\u00a0 <\/b>N\u00f3i nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 trong x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i ch\u00fang ta s\u1ed1ng m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ec1u kh\u00e1c nhau, ngay c\u1ea3 trong nh\u1eefng c\u00e1i gi\u1ed1ng nhau c\u0169ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00e1c nhau. T\u00f4i v\u00e0 anh, tuy h\u1ecdc c\u00f9ng chung tr\u01b0\u1eddng, c\u00f9ng l\u1edbp, t\u00f4i v\u00e0 anh v\u1eabn c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00e1c nhau: kh\u00e1c nhau v\u1ec1 t\u00e2m t\u00ednh, kh\u00e1c nhau v\u1ec1 s\u1edf th\u00edch \u2026V\u1eady th\u00ec ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u00f3a v\u1edbi nhau \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u00f2a \u0111\u1ed3ng, t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng l\u1eabn nhau, ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed3ng nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. C\u00e1ch suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i l\u00e0 c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i v\u00e0 c\u00e1ch suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a anh l\u00e0 c\u1ee7a anh. \u0110\u00f4i khi hai c\u00e1ch suy ngh\u0129 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed3ng nh\u1ea5t, gi\u1ed1ng nhau ; tuy nhi\u00ean v\u1eabn c\u00f3 ch\u00fat g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00e1c nhau . V\u1ea3 l\u1ea1i ch\u01b0a ch\u1eafc \u00fd ki\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i l\u00e0 \u0111\u00fang v\u00e0 \u00fd ki\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a anh l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng sai n\u1ebfu x\u00e9t m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1ch quan .\u00dd ki\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 \u0111\u00fang v\u00e0 \u00fd ki\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a anh kh\u00f4ng sai, x\u00e9t theo ch\u1ee7 quan. Nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, h\u1ecd l\u1ea1i cho l\u00e0 tr\u00e1i ng\u01b0\u1ee3c. Ch\u00fang ta v\u1eabn bi\u1ebft ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u2018b\u1ea5t to\u00e0n\u2019, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o. V\u00ec th\u1ebf ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u00e1p \u0111\u1eb7t m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ea3i theo \u00fd m\u00ecnh. C\u00f3 khi ch\u00fang ta ch\u1ec9 m\u1edbi nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c v\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta cho \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111\u00fang. C\u0169ng l\u00e0 c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t con voi, nh\u01b0ng n\u0103m anh m\u00f9 khi s\u1edd n\u00f3, l\u1ea1i \u0111\u01b0a ra n\u0103m nh\u1eadn x\u00e9t kh\u00e1c nhau\u2026N\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ecbnh ngh\u0129a cho chi\u1ebfc n\u00f3n l\u00e1 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef Vi\u1ec7t Nam l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t h\u00ecnh l\u1ed3i, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng sai. Tuy nhi\u00ean ch\u01b0a \u0111\u1ee7, c\u00f2n m\u1eb7t l\u00f5m c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 th\u00ec sao ?<\/p>\n

Hai c\u00f4 g\u00e0i song sinh, gi\u1ed1ng nhau nh\u01b0 \u0111\u00fac, gi\u1ed1ng nhau \u0111\u1ebfn n\u1ed7i cha m\u1eb9 ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m m\u1ed9t d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t. Nh\u01b0ng hai c\u00f4 n\u00e0ng v\u1eabn c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c nhau; \u00edt ra ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y bi\u1ebft ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 c\u00f2n c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00e1c nhau kh\u00e1c n\u1ebfu tinh \u00fd m\u1edbi nh\u1eadn ra \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c.<\/p>\n

C\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c, c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft kh\u00e1c nhau. C\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c, c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng \u00fd ki\u1ebfn kh\u00e1c nhau. Th\u1ebf m\u1edbi g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 phong ph\u00fa, \u0111a d\u1ea1ng. Trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh, ch\u1ed3ng v\u00e0 v\u1ee3 h\u1ee3p nh\u1ea5t trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau; cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con c\u00e1i s\u1ed1ng trong c\u1ea3nh sum h\u1ecdp \u00eam \u0111\u1ec1m. Nh\u01b0ng trong c\u00e1i \u0111\u01a1n v\u1ecb duy nh\u1ea5t n\u00e0y, ch\u1ed3ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng m\u01b0u t\u00ednh ri\u00eang, v\u1ecd c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng lo toan kh\u00e1c v\u00e0 con c\u00e1i c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng th\u00edch th\u1eddi ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi th\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea1i. Ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 b\u1eaft ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3 v\u00e0 con c\u00e1i ph\u1ea3i theo \u00fd ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Ch\u1ebf \u0111\u1ed9 phu x\u01b0\u1edbng ph\u1ee5 t\u00f9y, con c\u00e1i\u00a0 \u2018m\u1eb7c \u00e1o ph\u1ea3i chui qua \u0111\u1ea7u\u2019 trong th\u1eddi phong ki\u1ebfn \u0111\u00e3 lui v\u00e0o d\u0129 v\u00e3ng qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9. Trong th\u1eddi hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ea1i n\u00e0y, m\u1ed7i c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng, ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ef1ng l\u1eabn nhau \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1eef \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u00f2a kh\u00ed trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh, ngo\u00e0i x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i. \u0110\u1ea3nh r\u1eb1ng l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i \u2018\u00f4n c\u1ed1 tri t\u00e2n\u2019; tuy nhi\u00ean nh\u1eefng c\u00e1i c\u1ed5 hay, \u0111\u1eb9p, truy\u1ec1n th\u1ed1ng t\u1ed1t, ta ph\u1ea3i g\u00ecn gi\u1eef. C\u00f2n nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u1ee7 b\u1ea1i, ta n\u00ean lo\u1ea1i b\u1ecf \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 theo k\u1ecbp \u0111\u00e0 ti\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a th\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea1i. Ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, nh\u1eefng c\u00e1i t\u00e2n m\u00e0 m\u1ea5t ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c lu\u00e2n l\u00fd, kh\u00f4ng m\u1ea5y gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u00e2n ph\u1ea9m con ng\u01b0\u1eddi, ta c\u0169ng n\u00ean d\u00e8 ch\u1eebng tr\u00e1nh ch\u00fang \u0111i.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u1ec3 k\u1ebft, xin m\u01b0\u1ee3n l\u1eddi c\u1ee7a Th\u00e1nh Phao L\u00f4 g\u1edfi cho Gi\u00e1o \u0111o\u00e0n Corint\u00f4 , \u2018 D\u00f9 t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 ti\u1ebfng c\u1ee7a lo\u00e0i ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 c\u00e1c thi\u00ean th\u1ea7n, n\u1ebfu t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0110\u1ee9c B\u00e1c \u00e1i, t\u00f4i c\u0169ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 ti\u1ebfng ph\u00e8n la n\u00e3o b\u1ea1t \u1ea7m ng\u00e2n \u2018 ( 1 Cor. 13,1) v\u00e0 cho Gi\u00e1o \u0111o\u00e0n Coloss\u00ea , \u2018 Anh em h\u00e3y m\u1eb7c l\u1ea5y nh\u1eefng t\u00e2m t\u00ecnh t\u1eeb bi, nh\u00e2n h\u1eadu, khi\u00eam cung, \u00f4n h\u00f2a, ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ef1ng l\u1eabn nhau v\u00e0 h\u00e3y tha th\u1ee9 cho nhau \u2018 ( Col. 3,12 ). Nguy\u1ec7n ch\u00fac t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang ta suy ng\u1eabm nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi tr\u00ean \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng th\u0103ng hoa h\u01a1n qua s\u1ef1 h\u00f2a \u0111\u1ed3ng, th\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m v\u00e0 ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ef1ng l\u1eabn nhau nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n

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