{"id":4153,"date":"2017-10-23T12:32:51","date_gmt":"2017-10-23T19:32:51","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/saobiennhatrang.net\/?p=4153"},"modified":"2017-10-24T05:08:49","modified_gmt":"2017-10-24T12:08:49","slug":"lai-quyet-tam-dau-nam-chu-thap","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/saobiennhatrang.net\/?p=4153","title":{"rendered":"L\u1ea1i quy\u1ebft t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ea7u n\u0103m (Chu Th\u1eadp)"},"content":{"rendered":"

L<\/strong>\u1ea1i quy\u1ebft t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ea7u n\u0103m<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

N\u0103m n\u00e0o c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 n\u0103m n\u00e0o, c\u1ee9 b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o n\u0103m m\u1edbi l\u00e0 t\u00f4i l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng quy\u1ebft t\u00e2m m\u1edbi v\u00e0 n\u0103m n\u00e0o c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 n\u0103m n\u00e0o, t\u00f4i th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh ch\u1eb3ng th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c quy\u1ebft t\u00e2m n\u00e0o c\u1ea3. Nh\u00ecn l\u1ea1i th\u1ea5y ngao ng\u00e1n, nh\u01b0ng r\u1ed3i nh\u00ecn qua ng\u00f3 l\u1ea1i, t\u00f4i c\u0169ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y an \u1ee7i v\u00ec th\u1ea5y xung quanh m\u00ecnh, c\u0169ng c\u00f3 kh\u1ed1i ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u1ed1ng m\u00ecnh: bi\u1ebft bao nhi\u00eau ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u0169ng b\u1ecf cu\u1ed9c tr\u00ean con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng quy\u1ebft t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ea7u n\u0103m!<\/p>\n

Theo m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u, t\u1ea1i Hoa K\u1ef3, trong s\u1ed1 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 quy\u1ebft t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ea7u n\u0103m, kho\u1ea3ng 32 ph\u1ea7n tr\u0103m \u0111i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t \u0111o\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng \u00a0kh\u00f4ng qu\u00e1 \u00a02 tu\u1ea7n l\u1ec5, 42 ph\u1ea7n tr\u0103m b\u1ecf cu\u1ed9c sau m\u1ed9t th\u00e1ng v\u00e0 56 ph\u1ea7n tr\u0103m ch\u1ec9 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng l\u00ea l\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c 6 th\u00e1ng. C\u00f2n t\u1ea1i \u00dac \u0110\u1ea1i L\u1ee3i, m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c \u0111i\u1ec1u tra c\u0169ng cho th\u1ea5y c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ebfn 80 ph\u1ea7n tr\u0103m ch\u00e0o thua ch\u1ec9 sau 3 th\u00e1ng \u00a0(x. Psychology Today 9\/1\/2017).<\/p>\n

Kh\u00f4ng h\u01a1n ai, nh\u01b0ng c\u1ee9 theo t\u00e2m l\u00fd th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng,\u00a0 th\u1ea5y ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta ch\u1eb3ng h\u01a1n g\u00ec m\u00ecnh th\u00ec c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ee7 th\u1ea5y vui r\u1ed3i. Kh\u00f4ng th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1c quy\u1ebft t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ea7u n\u0103m xem ra c\u0169ng \u00a0l\u00e0 chuy\u1ec7n b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u00f4i. V\u1eady m\u00e0 t\u1eeb c\u1ed5 ch\u00ed kim, d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u v\u00e0 th\u1eddi n\u00e0o, c\u1ee9 m\u1ed7i d\u1ecbp \u0111\u1ea7u n\u0103m l\u00e0 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ea1i l\u00e0m m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 quy\u1ebft t\u00e2m. Th\u1eddi \u0110\u1ebf qu\u1ed1c Babylone, v\u00e0o Th\u1ebf k\u1ef7 th\u1ee9 7 tr\u01b0\u1edbc C\u00f4ng nguy\u00ean, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ee5p l\u1ea1y tr\u01b0\u1edbc b\u00e0n th\u1edd c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c th\u1ea7n minh \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111oan h\u1ee9a s\u1ebd ho\u00e0n tr\u1ea3 l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ed3 v\u1eadt h\u1ecd m\u01b0\u1ee3n c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. C\u00f2n trong \u0110\u1ebf qu\u1ed1c La M\u00e3, c\u1ee9 ng\u00e0y \u0111\u1ea7u n\u0103m, ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u00e2n c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ebfn kh\u1ea5n h\u1ee9a tr\u01b0\u1edbc b\u00e0n th\u1edd c\u1ee7a th\u1ea7n Janus r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd s\u1ebd thanh to\u00e1n n\u1ee3 n\u1ea7n v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Truy\u1ec1n th\u1ed1ng l\u00e0m quy\u1ebft t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ea7u n\u0103m n\u00e0y ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c s\u1ed1ng m\u00e3i cho t\u1edbi th\u1eddi Trung C\u1ed5 \u1edf \u00c2u Ch\u00e2u. T\u1ea1i l\u1ee5c \u0111\u1ecba ch\u1ecbu \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a v\u0103n minh Kit\u00f4 gi\u00e1o n\u00e0y, m\u1ed7i n\u0103m c\u00e1c hi\u1ec7p s\u0129 c\u0169ng l\u1eadp l\u1ea1i cam k\u1ebft s\u1ebd s\u1ed1ng h\u1ebft m\u00ecnh tinh th\u1ea7n v\u00f5 s\u0129 \u0111\u1ea1o. Ri\u00eang\u00a0 trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng t\u00e2m linh, c\u00f3 t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o n\u00e0o m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch c\u00e1c t\u00edn \u0111\u1ed3 h\u1ed3i t\u00e2m, s\u00e1m h\u1ed1i v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng l\u1ed3i l\u1ea7m c\u1ee7a qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 v\u00e0 quy\u1ebft t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ed5i m\u1edbi trong n\u0103m m\u1edbi. Trong c\u00e1c C\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed3ng C\u00f4ng gi\u00e1o Vi\u1ec7t Nam \u1edf \u00dac \u0110\u1ea1i L\u1ee3i n\u00e0y ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n, c\u1ee9 m\u1ed7i d\u1ecbp l\u1ec5 T\u1ebft, t\u00f4i nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5y c\u00e1c t\u00edn h\u1eefu c\u0169ng \u0111i \u201ch\u00e1i l\u1ed9c\u201d v\u00e0 m\u1ed7i l\u00e1 \u201cl\u1ed9c\u201d l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u Kinh Th\u00e1nh c\u00f3 n\u1ed9i dung khuy\u00ean nh\u1ee7 h\u1ecd canh t\u00e2n \u0111\u1ed5i m\u1edbi trong n\u0103m m\u1edbi.<\/p>\n

N\u00f3i chung, l\u00e0m quy\u1ebft t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ea7u n\u0103m l\u00e0 chuy\u1ec7n b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1c quy\u1ebft t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ea7u n\u0103m xem ra c\u0169ng l\u00e0 chuy\u1ec7n b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng. Nh\u01b0ng xuy\u00ean qua thi\u1ec7n ch\u00ed v\u00e0 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i trong c\u00e1c quy\u1ebft t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ea7u n\u0103m, con ng\u01b0\u1eddi lu\u00f4n mong mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n \u1edf m\u1ed9t kh\u00eda c\u1ea1nh n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3. T\u00f4i v\u1eabn lu\u00f4n tin t\u01b0\u1edfng r\u1eb1ng d\u00f9 c\u00f3 v\u1ea5p ng\u00e3, con ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1eabn mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u1ee9ng d\u1eady v\u00e0 b\u01b0\u1edbc t\u1edbi. \u0110\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c \u0111\u00e0ng sau nh\u1eefng c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng \u1ea5y l\u00e0 ni\u1ec1m tin v\u00e0o kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi.<\/p>\n

Kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft t\u1ea1i sao t\u00f4i l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129 l\u1ea1c quan \u1ea5y khi theo d\u00f5i nh\u1eefng bi\u1ebfn chuy\u1ec3n trong t\u00ecnh h\u00ecnh ch\u00ednh s\u1ef1 t\u1ea1i Hoa K\u1ef3, k\u1ec3 t\u1eeb khi t\u1ef7 ph\u00fa \u0111\u1ecba \u1ed1c Donald Trump b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u l\u00e0m m\u01b0a l\u00e0m gi\u00f3 t\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ec7 nh\u1ee9t si\u00eau c\u01b0\u1eddng n\u00e0y. R\u00f5 r\u00e0ng l\u00e0 t\u00f4i \u0111ang b\u1ecb \u00e1m \u1ea3nh b\u1edfi nh\u00e2n d\u1ea1ng, \u0111i\u1ec7u b\u1ed9, nh\u1ee9t c\u1eed nh\u1ee9t \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u00e0 nh\u1ee9t l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi tuy\u00ean b\u1ed1 b\u1ed1c \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng. M\u1ed7i s\u00e1ng, v\u1eeba m\u1edf m\u1eaft, \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i l\u00e0 m\u1edf m\u00e1y vi t\u00ednh, l\u01b0\u1edbt qua t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng tin t\u1ee9c li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn \u00f4ng v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec \u00f4ng tuy\u00ean b\u1ed1. Tuy t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 d\u00e2n M\u1ef9, nh\u01b0ng cu\u1ed9c b\u1ea7u c\u1eed v\u1eeba qua t\u1ea1i M\u1ef9 \u0111\u00e3 l\u00f4i k\u00e9o t\u00f4i v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c chi\u1ebfn ch\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1eb7ng \u0111\u1eebng. B\u1ea1n b\u00e8 t\u00f4i b\u00ean M\u1ef9 chia l\u00e0m 2 phe r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng: phe \u1ee7ng h\u1ed9 b\u00e0 Hillary Clinton, phe h\u1ebft m\u00ecnh v\u00ec \u00f4ng Donald Trump. Ri\u00eang t\u00f4i ch\u1eb3ng \u01b0a g\u00ec b\u00e0 Clinton, nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i c\u00e0ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ee9ng v\u1ec1 ph\u00eda \u00f4ng Trump. Trong b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c b\u1ea7u c\u1eed n\u00e0o, d\u0129 nhi\u00ean t\u00f4i xem tr\u1ecdng t\u00e0i n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c \u1ee9ng c\u1eed vi\u00ean. Nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i v\u1eabn l\u1ea5y t\u01b0 c\u00e1ch v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 l\u00e0m ti\u00eau chu\u1ea9n h\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ecdn m\u1eb7t g\u1edfi v\u00e0ng. V\u1edbi t\u00f4i, s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh \u0111\u00edch th\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng tr\u00ean s\u1ef1 ph\u1ed3n vinh v\u1ec1 kinh t\u1ebf hay gi\u00e0u c\u00f3 v\u1ec1 ti\u1ec7n nghi v\u1eadt ch\u1ea5t. M\u1ed9t x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh c\u00f2n c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i ph\u00e1t huy v\u00e0 c\u1ed5 v\u00f5 nh\u1eefng gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb tinh th\u1ea7n, nh\u00e2n b\u1ea3n v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c. \u00a0M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n th\u00e2n c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i b\u00ean M\u1ef9, bi\u1ebft t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng m\u1eb7n m\u00e0 v\u1edbi \u00f4ng Trump v\u00ec th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 ng\u1ea1o m\u1ea1n, hung h\u0103ng, l\u1ed7 m\u00e3ng v\u00e0 ngay c\u1ea3 xem th\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u1eefng gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng, \u0111\u00e3 t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch bi\u1ec7n h\u1ed9 cho \u00f4ng v\u00e0 gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch v\u1edbi ri\u00eang t\u00f4i r\u1eb1ng \u201cn\u01b0\u1edbc M\u1ef9 ch\u00fang t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng b\u1ea7u m\u1ed9t v\u1ecb gi\u00e1o ho\u00e0ng\u201d m\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 ch\u1ecdn m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng mang l\u1ea1i ph\u1ed3n th\u1ecbnh cho x\u1ee9 s\u1edf v\u00e0 l\u00e0m cho x\u1ee9 s\u1edf \u201cv\u0129 \u0111\u1ea1i tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i\u201d.<\/p>\n

V\u1edbi l\u1eddi bi\u1ec7n h\u1ed9 d\u00e0nh cho \u00f4ng Trump, \u00f4ng b\u1ea1n th\u00e2n c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 c\u0169ng mu\u1ed1n l\u00f4i k\u00e9o t\u00f4i v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c chi\u1ebfn. Do \u201cb\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed3ng ch\u00ednh ki\u1ebfn\u201d, quan h\u1ec7 gi\u1eefa nh\u1eefng \u00f4ng b\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i b\u00ean M\u1ef9 \u0111\u00e3 s\u1ee9t m\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng \u00edt. Tr\u00ean \u201cmeo \u0111\u00e0n\u201d \u00a0c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng h\u1ecdc chung d\u01b0\u1edbi c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t m\u00e1i tr\u01b0\u1eddng, h\u1ecd cho\u1ea3ng nhau ch\u00ed ch\u00f3e. D\u00f9 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f4ng khai \u0111\u1ee9ng v\u1ec1 b\u00ean n\u00e0o, c\u00f3 l\u00fac t\u00f4i c\u0169ng th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh b\u1ecb l\u00f4i v\u00e0o cu\u1ed9c chi\u1ebfn. Nh\u01b0ng cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng, d\u00f9 c\u00f3 \u201cb\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed3ng ch\u00ednh ki\u1ebfn\u201d v\u1edbi nhau c\u1ee1 n\u00e0o, t\u00f4i v\u1eabn mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u1eb7t t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n l\u00ean tr\u00ean h\u1ebft. V\u1edbi t\u00f4i, t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 l\u1eeda th\u1eed v\u00e0ng c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh.<\/p>\n

T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft r\u1ed3i \u0111\u00e2y m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 gi\u1eefa \u00f4ng b\u00e0 Clinton v\u00e0 t\u00e2n T\u1ed5ng th\u1ed1ng Donald Trump s\u1ebd nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o. H\u1ed3i n\u0103m 2005, \u00f4ng b\u00e0 Clinton \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u00f4ng Trump m\u1eddi tham d\u1ef1 \u0111\u00e1m c\u01b0\u1edbi c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng v\u1edbi b\u00e0 Melania. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n th\u1ee9 3 c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng. \u00d4ng Trump c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng \u0111\u1ee9ng ra gi\u00fap \u00f4ng b\u00e0 Clinton v\u1eadn \u0111\u1ed9ng th\u00e0nh l\u1eadp Qu\u1ef9 Clinton. Ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 th\u00e2n thi\u1ebft \u00a0l\u1eafm \u00f4ng Clinton m\u1edbi cho\u00e0ng vai \u00f4ng Trump v\u00e0 \u00f4ng Trump m\u1edbi \u0111\u01b0a tay v\u00f2ng qua eo b\u00e0 Clinton. Trong ti\u1ec7c c\u01b0\u1edbi, h\u1ecd c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng \u00e1p m\u00e1 v\u00e0o nhau. Nh\u1eefng h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh \u1ea5y ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 b\u1eb1ng ch\u1ee9ng cho th\u1ea5y h\u1ecd l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n th\u00e2n v\u1edbi nhau. Nh\u01b0ng ai c\u0169ng nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi n\u00f3i th\u00f4 l\u1ed7 c\u1ed9c c\u1eb1n, nh\u1ee9t l\u00e0 t\u1eeb ph\u00eda \u00f4ng Trump, m\u00e0 h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 x\u1ed1i x\u1ea3 tu\u00f4n v\u00e0o nhau trong cu\u1ed9c v\u1eadn \u0111\u1ed9ng b\u1ea7u c\u1eed v\u1eeba qua, ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 th\u00f9 h\u1eadn m\u00e0 th\u00f4i. T\u00f4i hy v\u1ecdng r\u1eb1ng t\u00e2n T\u1ed5ng th\u1ed1ng Trump c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 \u00f4ng b\u00e0 Clinton s\u1ebd \u201ctr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh\u201d h\u01a1n \u0111\u1ec3 h\u00e0n g\u1eafn nh\u1eefng v\u1ebft th\u01b0\u01a1ng do cu\u1ed9c b\u1ea7u c\u1eed t\u1ea1o ra v\u00e0 n\u1ed1i l\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n v\u1edbi nhau.<\/p>\n

Ph\u1ea3i n\u00f3i d\u1ee9t kho\u00e1t r\u1eb1ng trong cu\u1ed9c b\u1ea7u c\u1eed t\u1ed5ng th\u1ed1ng M\u1ef9 v\u1eeba qua, t\u00f4i ch\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ee9ng v\u1ec1 phe n\u00e0o c\u1ea3. Nh\u01b0ng \u00edt ra, t\u00f4i ph\u1ee5c t\u01b0 c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a b\u00e0 Clinton. Trong khi \u00f4ng Trump tuy\u00ean b\u1ed1 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 b\u1ea7u c\u1eed v\u00e0 s\u1ebd \u201cqu\u1eady\u201d cho t\u1edbi b\u1ebfn theo ki\u1ec3u \u201c\u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0m vua thua l\u00e0m gi\u1eb7c\u201d n\u1ebfu \u00f4ng th\u1ea5t c\u1eed, th\u00ec b\u00e0 Clinton \u0111\u00e3 l\u00ean ti\u1ebfng ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn thua cu\u1ed9c. \u00cdt ra t\u00f4i th\u1ea5y b\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 c\u01b0 x\u1eed nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh. V\u00e0 d\u00f9 c\u00f3 ng\u1eadm \u0111\u1eafng nu\u1ed1t cay c\u1ee1 n\u00e0o, s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a b\u00e0 trong l\u1ec5 tuy\u00ean th\u1ec7 \u00a0nh\u1eadm ch\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng Trump c\u0169ng c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn nh\u01b0\u00a0 thi\u1ec7n ch\u00ed c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi mu\u1ed1n x\u00ed x\u00f3a chuy\u1ec7n c\u0169 v\u00e0 bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t t\u01b0 c\u00e1ch tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh.<\/p>\n

T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft \u00fd ni\u1ec7m \u201ctr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh\u201d c\u00f3 trong \u0111\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a t\u00e2n T\u1ed5ng th\u1ed1ng Trump kh\u00f4ng. Trong m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n tr\u00ean \u0111\u00e0i CNN ng\u00e0y 6 th\u00e1ng Gi\u00eang v\u1eeba qua , khi nh\u1eadn \u0111\u1ecbnh v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi tuy\u00ean b\u1ed1 b\u1eeba b\u00e3i v\u00e0 \u201cthi\u1ebfu suy ngh\u0129\u201d c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng Trump tr\u00ean trang m\u1ea1ng Twitter, Ph\u00f3 t\u1ed5ng th\u1ed1ng Joe Biden n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ebfn l\u00fac \u00f4ng Trump c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh. \u00d4ng tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp nh\u1eafn nh\u1ee7 t\u00e2n t\u1ed5ng th\u1ed1ng M\u1ef9: \u201cDonald, h\u00e3y tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh. H\u00e3y tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh. \u0110\u00e3 \u0111\u1ebfn l\u00fac ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m m\u1ed9t\u00a0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn\u201d.<\/p>\n

(x.http:\/\/edition.cnn.com\/2017\/01\/05\/politics\/vice-president-joe-biden-donald-trump-grow-up\/).<\/p>\n

T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee7 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u0111\u1ec3 lu\u1eadn b\u00e0n v\u1ec1 di s\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a T\u1ed5ng th\u1ed1ng Barack Obama. Nh\u01b0ng \u00edt ra, d\u01b0\u1edbi m\u1eaft t\u00f4i, l\u00fac n\u00e0o \u00f4ng c\u0169ng c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng t\u1ecf ra m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh, nh\u1ee9t l\u00e0 trong l\u1eddi n\u00f3i. Ngay c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng gi\u1ecdt n\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eaft m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u1ea5y r\u01a1i l\u00e3 ch\u00e3 tr\u00ean m\u00e1 \u00f4ng m\u1ed7i khi \u00f4ng x\u00fac \u0111\u1ed9ng, nh\u1ee9t l\u00e0 khi n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng th\u1ea3m c\u1ea3nh do n\u1ea1n ch\u00e9m gi\u1ebft b\u1eeba b\u00e3i b\u1eb1ng s\u00fang \u1ed1ng trong x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i M\u1ef9, t\u00f4i c\u0169ng xem \u0111\u00f3 nh\u01b0 bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t con ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh. Tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh v\u00ec c\u00f2n bi\u1ebft\u00a0 x\u00fac \u0111\u1ed9ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc kh\u1ed5 \u0111au c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed3ng lo\u1ea1i. Sau hai nhi\u1ec7m k\u1ef3 t\u1ed5ng th\u1ed1ng, t\u00f3c \u00f4ng \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ea1c h\u1eb3n \u0111i v\u00e0 \u00f4ng c\u0169ng gi\u00e0 d\u1eb7n, ch\u00edn ch\u1eafn v\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh h\u01a1n. Trong b\u00e0i di\u1ec5n v\u0103n t\u1eeb gi\u00e3 d\u00e2n ch\u00fang M\u1ef9, \u00f4ng c\u00e1m h\u01a1n h\u1ecd v\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m cho \u00f4ng tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t t\u1ed5ng th\u1ed1ng t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n. \u0110\u00fang h\u01a1n, m\u1ed9t con ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n, ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh h\u01a1n. Kh\u1ea9u hi\u1ec7u \u201cYes, we can\u201d (Ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c) m\u00e0 \u00f4ng \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ecdn cho chi\u1ebfn d\u1ecbch v\u1eadn \u0111\u1ed9ng b\u1ea7u c\u1eed c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 su\u1ed1t 2 nhi\u1ec7m k\u1ef3 t\u1ed5ng th\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng, c\u00f3 l\u1ebd tr\u01b0\u1edbc ti\u00ean c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c hi\u1ec3u nh\u01b0 ni\u1ec1m hy v\u1ecdng v\u00e0 tin t\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a\u00a0 \u00f4ng v\u00e0o kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n \u00f4ng. Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i v\u00e0 thay \u0111\u1ed5i theo chi\u1ec1u h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u1ed1t. T\u00f4i ngh\u0129 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 s\u1ee9 \u0111i\u1ec7p m\u00e0 qua s\u1ef1 v\u01b0\u01a1n l\u00ean c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n \u00f4ng, T\u1ed5ng th\u1ed1ng Obama mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i cho h\u1eadu th\u1ebf. T\u00f4i c\u0169ng hy v\u1ecdng v\u00e0 c\u1ea7u mong r\u1eb1ng \u1edf cu\u1ed1i nhi\u1ec7m k\u1ef3 c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng, t\u00e2n T\u1ed5ng th\u1ed1ng Trump c\u0169ng s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t s\u1ee9 \u0111i\u1ec7p nh\u01b0 v\u1eady.<\/p>\n

\u1ede m\u1ed7i d\u1ecbp \u0111\u1ea7u n\u0103m, khi l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng quy\u1ebft t\u00e2m cho n\u0103m m\u1edbi, t\u00f4i lu\u00f4n \u00a0tin t\u01b0\u1edfng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf: con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i! \u00a0M\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y, c\u00e1c chuy\u00ean gia t\u00e2m l\u00fd thu\u1ed9c tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0110\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc Bremen, \u0110\u1ee9c qu\u1ed1c v\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0110\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc Lisboa, B\u1ed3 \u0110\u00e0o Nha \u0111\u00e3 ph\u1ed1i h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi nhau \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c \u0111i\u1ec1u tra \u0111\u1ec3 xem \u0111\u00e2u l\u00e0 n\u00e9t n\u1ed5i b\u1eadt nh\u1ee9t trong t\u01b0 c\u00e1ch con ng\u01b0\u1eddi. \u0110\u00e3 c\u00f3 g\u1ea7n 42 ng\u00e0n ng\u01b0\u1eddi thu\u1ed9c 30 qu\u1ed1c gia tham gia cu\u1ed9c nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u. K\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 cu\u1ed9c \u0111i\u1ec1u tra cho th\u1ea5y, nh\u00ecn chung, con ng\u01b0\u1eddi xem s\u1ef1 tha th\u1ee9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng n\u00e9t n\u1ed5i tr\u1ed9i nh\u1ee9t trong t\u01b0 c\u00e1ch con ng\u01b0\u1eddi. C\u00e1c chuy\u00ean gia t\u00e2m l\u00fd \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0a ra k\u1ebft lu\u1eadn: \u201cTha th\u1ee9 xem ra l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 then ch\u1ed1t trong vi\u1ec7c b\u1ebd g\u1eaby nh\u1eefng v\u00f2ng l\u1ea9n qu\u1ea9n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ed9ng trong c\u00e1c x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i sau th\u1eddi k\u1ef3 xung \u0111\u1ed9t\u201d. N\u00f3i c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c, tha th\u1ee9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn h\u00e0n g\u1eafn v\u00e0 h\u00f2a gi\u1ea3i gi\u1eefa c\u00e1c d\u00e2n t\u1ed9c. (x.www.psychologytoday.com\/blog\/fulfillment-any-age\/201608\/4-reasons-give-someone-second-chance) .<\/p>\n

Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i tha th\u1ee9 cho nhau l\u00e0 b\u1edfi v\u00ec con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ai c\u0169ng c\u00f3 l\u00fac sai ph\u1ea1m v\u00e0 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i. Ai c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng sai l\u1ea7m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Do \u0111\u00f3 qu\u00e0 t\u1eb7ng t\u1ed1t nh\u1ee9t d\u00e0nh cho m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 cho h\u1ecd m\u1ed9t c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i th\u1ee9 hai \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00fap h\u1ecd ch\u1ee9ng t\u1ecf \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n

Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u00e0 c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i tha th\u1ee9 cho nhau l\u00e0 b\u1edfi v\u00ec ai c\u0169ng mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c tha th\u1ee9. Th\u00e0nh ra khi t\u00f4i t\u1eb7ng cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c m\u1ed9t c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i th\u1ee9 hai \u0111\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i c\u0169ng ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 l\u00fac t\u00f4i\u00a0 t\u1ef1 d\u00e0nh cho m\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u l\u00e0m l\u1ea1i.<\/p>\n

S\u1ed1ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u l\u00e0m l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng. Sang n\u0103m gi\u1edd n\u00e0y, khi nh\u00ecn l\u1ea1i \u0111o\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u00e3 \u0111i qua, t\u00f4i bi\u1ebft ch\u1eafc l\u00e0 m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng kh\u00f4ng \u00edt v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng quy\u1ebft t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ea7u n\u0103m. Nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i c\u0169ng tin t\u01b0\u1edfng r\u1eb1ng t\u00f4i s\u1ebd l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh h\u01a1n n\u1ebfu t\u00f4i bi\u1ebft ra kh\u1ecfi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n, \u0111\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft qu\u00ean m\u00ecnh h\u01a1n, \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng t\u1eed t\u1ebf h\u01a1n v\u00e0 nh\u1ee9t l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft c\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng v\u00e0 tha th\u1ee9 nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n. Ngh\u1ecbch l\u00fd c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi l\u00e0 th\u1ebf \u0111\u00f3: khi t\u00f4i d\u00e0nh cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c m\u1ed9t c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i th\u1ee9 hai \u0111\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i c\u0169ng ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 l\u00fac t\u00f4i thay \u0111\u1ed5i ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

Chu Th\u1eadp<\/em><\/p>\n

20.01.17<\/em><\/p>\n

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